Leaving a nine-year relationship that has nothing wrong with it.
“It sounds like a whim, and I’m ashamed to say it out loud.”
Anonymous by design
One hour with yourself, and the questions no one asks you.
The method
A real excerpt from a session.
Coach
Imagine a year from now you decide it’s a no. You stay where you are. That day, walking into the same job, knowing you said no… what do you tell yourself?
Marta
That’s the part I don’t even want to think about. I picture myself walking in and thinking that once again I didn’t do it. That once again I stayed where I was, out of fear.
Although maybe I’m just talking myself into something I’m not that sure about.
Coach
It’s good that you don’t quite trust it. Let’s test it. You said “once again I didn’t do it”. Once again. That means there’s a list. What other times did you stay where you were?
Exactly as you put it, in your words. The system doesn’t write it for you.
What’s the difference between putting up with something in silence and standing by something you’ve decided?
“One by one, it peeled away the layers that kept you from saying out loud what you already knew.”
The document
The session is yours. When it ends, you’re left with a document to reread calmly, once this weighs a little less. Only you will see it.
For when you need it
Nine cases simulated with AI, based on real events.
Leaving a nine-year relationship that has nothing wrong with it.
“It sounds like a whim, and I’m ashamed to say it out loud.”
Accepting the promotion he’d been asking for over eight years.
“As long as I don’t say yes, I can still be the one who would’ve done it well.”
Asking for four hours for herself when she “has nothing to complain about”.
“There isn’t a single piece of the week that’s truly mine.”
Leaving her current job without knowing yet what comes next.
“It’s not that I don’t know what I want. I’ve just never stopped to look for it.”
Starting something of his own after twelve years at the same company.
“I’ve been saying I’m ready for years. Nobody had asked me ready for what.”
Moving the family to another country for a “once-in-a-lifetime opportunity”.
“I kept saying ‘we’. And at home we hadn’t really talked about it.”
Changing her life after eighteen years devoted to everyone else.
“I know what I don’t want. What I do want, I’d never asked myself.”
Making CEO in four years, doing “whatever it takes”.
“My family supports me. Though, come to think of it, I’ve never asked them.”
Retiring and deciding what to do with the company of a lifetime.
“I want to leave it in good hands. I don’t know yet what that means.”
Why Klaiver
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